7妙招帮助老板激励员工奋发图强,成功的管理者都会成功的激励身边的每一个人,让他们每天都斗志昂扬,不管是在何种场合都需要我们去细心的分析他们的心态,然后对症下药。
1. Listen.
Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.
2. Ask open-ended questions.
Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, What have you always wanted to do?
Why do you want to do that?
What makes you so excited about it?
How long has that been your dream?
You need this information the help you with the following steps.
3. Encourage.
This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, I think you will be great at that. Better yet, say, I think your skills in X will help you succeed. For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.
4. Ask about what the first step will be.
After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.
5. Dream.
This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate? By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.
6. Ask how you can help.
Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.
7. Follow up.
Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.
By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams … Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!