一个人幸不幸福、快不快乐，不取决于自己取得了多大的成就，而是来自于邻居看自己的眼神。当人们追求的不是幸福，而是比别人更幸福时，快乐就要远离我们了。20个让你不快乐的原因|名人名言阅读，其实这篇文章共有75个不快乐的原因，这里暂时贴出来20个，有兴趣的可以译一译！

1、Desire - When you are discontent, you always want more, more, more. Your desire can never be satisfied. But when you practice contentment, you can say to yourself – Oh yes, I already have everything that I really need. – Dalai Lama

2、Loneliness - Language has created the word loneliness to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word solitude to express the glory of being alone. – Paul Tillich

3、Materialism - An attitude to life which seeks fulfillment in the single-minded pursuit of wealth – in short, materialism – does not fit into this world because it contains within itself no limiting principle, while the environment in which it is placed is strictly limited. – E.F. Schumacher

4、You wish you were someone else - The snow goose need not bathe to make itself white. Neither need you do anything but be yourself. – Lao Tzu

5、You don’t make time - Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.Michael Jordan

6、You surround yourself with the wrong people (unhappy people) - Surround yourself with good people. Whether they’re the best or not, people are capable of learning if they’ve got good hearts and good souls. – Kid Rock

7、You haven’t found your purpose - Achievement of your happiness is the only moral purpose of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless self-indulgence, is the proof of your moral integrity since it is the result of your loyalty to the achievement of your values. – Ayn Rand

8、You compare yourself to others - When you stop comparing what is right here and now with what you wish were, you can begin to enjoy what is. – Cheri Huber

9、You’re being someone you’re not - To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest achievement. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

10、You’re stuck in the past - Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. – Buddha

11、You’re stuck in the future - The future starts today, not tomorrow. Pope John Paul II

12、You’re unhealthy - The way you think, the way you behave, the way you eat, can influence your life by 30 to 50 years. – Deepak Chopra

13、You’re negative - Quit thinking that you must halt before the barrier of your inner negativity. You need not. You can crash through… whenever we see a negative state, that is where we can destroy it. – Vernon Howard

14、You’re irresponsible - In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility. – Eleanor Roosevelt

15、You’re a perfectionist - I’m a perfectionist. I can’t help it, I get really upset with myself if I fail in the least. – Justin Timberlake

16、You’re afraid of failure - Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. – Winston Churchill

17、You’re insecure - The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity. Erich Fromm

18、You’re in debt - A man in debt is so far a slave. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

19、You seek validation - Choose yourself. – Seth Godin

20、You have a get mentality - A few people, not many, but a few, take. They take the best education they can get, pushing teachers for more, finding things to do, exploring non-defined niches. They take more courses than the minimum, they invent new projects and they show up with questions. What have you taken today? – Seth Godin